feature: “why white people freak out when they’re called out about race” – alternet discuss ‘white fragility’ with professor robin diangelo (the woman who coined the term)

In a great piece for AlterNet, writer Sam Adler-Bell has interviewed Robin DiAngelo to discuss ‘White fragility” – a term that DiAngelo (professor of multicutural education at Westfield State University and author of ‘What Does it Mean to Be White? Developing White Racial Literacy’) coined in a 2011 journal article; describing “White fragility” as “a state in which even a minimum amount of racial stress becomes intolerable, triggering a range of defensive moves. These moves include outward display of emotions such as anger, fear and guilt, and behaviors such as argumentation, silence and leaving the stress-inducing situation.” CLICK HERE to read the article, and find some of DiAngelo’s words below.

By Alexander Aplerku, AFROPUNK Contributor

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For white people, their identities rest on the idea of racism as about good or bad people, about moral or immoral singular acts, and if we’re good, moral people we can’t be racist – we don’t engage in those acts. This is one of the most effective adaptations of racism over time—that we can think of racism as only something that individuals either are or are not “doing.”

In large part, white fragility—the defensiveness, the fear of conflict—is rooted in this good/bad binary. If you call someone out, they think to themselves, “What you just said was that I am a bad person, and that is intolerable to me.” It’s a deep challenge to the core of our identity as good, moral people. The good/bad binary is also what leads to the very unhelpful phenomenon of un-friending on Facebook.

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And white fragility also comes from a deep sense of entitlement. Think about it like this: from the time I opened my eyes, I have been told that as a white person, I am superior to people of color. There’s never been a space in which I have not been receiving that message. From what hospital I was allowed to be born in, to how my mother was treated by the staff, to who owned the hospital, to who cleaned the rooms and took out the garbage. We are born into a racial hierarchy, and every interaction with media and culture confirms it—our sense that, at a fundamental level, we are superior.

And, the thing is, it feels good. Even though it contradicts our most basic principles and values. So we know it, but we can never admit it. It creates this kind of dangerous internal stew that gets enacted externally in our interactions with people of color, and is crazy-making for people of color. We have set the world up to preserve that internal sense of superiority and also resist challenges to it. All while denying that anything is going on and insisting that race is meaningless to us.

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